ORANJESTAD (AAN):
AVP Member of Parliament Otami Thomasia, together with other members of Parliament, recently paid a working visit to the Foundation Against Relational Violence (FCVR). As Chair of the Parliamentary Committee on Social Affairs, Thomasia described the visit as particularly positive, noting that the organization has grown far beyond its original role as a shelter.
Today, FCVR operates using a holistic and integrated approach, built on five core pillars, with the aim of addressing relational and domestic violence in a humane, sustainable manner while fully respecting human dignity.
During the visit, foundation representatives emphasized that violence is not an isolated incident but a complex social problem affecting emotional well-being, personal safety, family dynamics, and community trust.
“This is precisely why FCVR’s approach is so important,” Thomasia stated. “They do not focus only on the crisis moment, but on the entire process — before, during, and after.”
FCVR now offers more than shelter alone. Its services include intake and guidance, psychosocial support, prevention programs, and public awareness initiatives. The foundation works closely with social services, healthcare providers, police, justice institutions, and community organizations to form a coordinated protection network for victims, ensuring no one falls through the cracks.
A key point of attention during the visit was FCVR’s work with children. Children raised in violent environments often come to normalize abuse. To break this cycle, FCVR provides professional therapy to help children process their experiences and learn that violence is neither normal nor acceptable.
“Investing in the well-being of children is investing in the future of Aruba,” Thomasia emphasized.
The parliamentarian also highlighted the importance of clear and continuous communication between organizations like FCVR and the government.
“If we want to achieve real and lasting results in combating violence, open and trust-based communication is essential,” Thomasia said. “The government must listen to realities on the ground, and organizations must be able to share their needs, challenges, and recommendations without barriers.”
FCVR is also deeply involved in training and awareness-building, offering workshops for organizations and professionals to help them recognize signs of abuse and respond appropriately without re-victimizing those affected.
During the visit, discussions also addressed the taboo that still surrounds domestic and relational violence. Silence and fear often allow situations to remain hidden. FCVR actively works to break this silence and sends a clear message: speaking up and taking action are essential forms of protection.
Finally, Thomasia expressed concern about the financial situation of FCVR. Although the foundation receives government subsidies, the current funding no longer reflects the reality of its expanded range of services.
“We must reassess how we support organizations that carry such a significant responsibility within our community,” Thomasia stated.
Domestic and relational violence is not a private issue, but a collective responsibility. The work of the Foundation Against Relational Violence shows that through protection, prevention, and respect for human dignity, Aruba can continue working toward a safer and more just society for all.
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